the hardest things in love

01. flashing your smile to someone u don't want to see
02. bringing back the feeling that you've learned to forget
03. showing you care
04. finding a way to mend a broken heart
05. learning that you've been used by someone that you truly love
06. saying "i love you" when you mean it and when you don't
07. letting go of a person u've just learned to love
08. realizing that u love somebody u've just taken for granted
09. realizing that u love the person u've just broken up with
10. waiting for promises you know HE OR SHE will never keep
11. saying your love for someone whoe loves someone else
12. reminiscing the good times you've shared
13. sheilding ur heart to love somebody
14. trying to hide what you feel
15. having a commitment w/ someone that u know would not last
16. trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your eyes
17. sharing the one you love with someone else
18. loving a person too much
19. giving up someone u never thought of giving up
20. falling in love for the first time
21. loving someone you haven't seen
22. having the right love at the wrong time
23. exerting effort to make the relationship last or work
24. not being appreciated when you know you've given your best
25. taking the risk to fall in love again
26. hiding ur relationship from someone else
27. controlling ur feelings to avoid hurting a friend
28. choosing between 2 persons whom u really love

loving involves two phases. the first intuitive one is loving the person because of who he/she is. the second nobler one is loving the person despite of who he/she is not. the first one sparks love. the second one makes it last.